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You Cannot Do It By Yourself

Feb 14, 2025

You Cannot Do It By Yourself

Yitro, Moses’s father-in-law, (for whom the parsha is named this week) sees Moses judging all of Israel’s matters by himself, thus forcing people to wait from morning until evening. He tells Moses that he will only succeed in causing the nation and himself to become weary. What was so onerous about judging all those cases? Is it not possible that Moses simply had such a brilliant legal mind that he could handle this formidable task? Sforno argues that Moses was biting off way more than any human being could chew…
What I Learned from Meirav Berger

Feb 7, 2025

What I Learned from Meirav Berger

One of the most striking interpretations of this week's Torah portion Beshalach comes from a Midrash describing the splitting of the Red Sea. In the midst of this miraculous event, the Midrash presents a conversation between two anonymous men called Reuben and Shimon, as they cross the seabed. “In Egypt, we were immersed in mortar, and here we are still surrounded by mortar,” they remarked. “In Egypt, we had the mortar that accompanied the bricks, and here at the Red Sea, we have the mud caused by the splitting waters.” Amidst the miracle, all they could see was mud and dirt; to them, mud was mud, this time, in a new place. Their view was clouded, preventing them from grasping the significance of the moment.
The Process of Social Upheaval

Jan 31, 2025

The Process of Social Upheaval

In normal times, I approach Parashat Bo in the usual way. I dive deep into fine points of the story and the language of the text. I carefully examine Pharaoh’s response to each plague (was he adamant in his refusal, or ambivalent?). This is, after all, how we Jews study text, assuming that every detail of the text, even the smallest turn of phrase, contains profound meaning for us. But these are not normal times. I feel called to zoom out from the fine points of the text and ask: What is the overall message of this portion for me this year? What do the broad strokes of this story teach about a time of massive social upheaval?
Facing Your Personal Egypt

Jan 24, 2025

Facing Your Personal Egypt

Have you ever had a CAT scan or MRI? They send you to a room that looks like something out of Star Trek. If you are like me, you shudder to even think about it. There is something about the machinery, the clanking noise, the lights and the freezing room that is just plain scary. Most of all, however, is that table in the middle. You climb up and have to lie on a very narrow space and just wait for the exam to be over. In Hebrew, a narrow space is called Meytzarim, "straits" geographically, but also any place that constricts you physically or personally. It is also embedded in the word Mitzrayim, which is the Hebrew name for the Land of Egypt.
The “New” Normal

Jan 17, 2025

The “New” Normal

The ancient and so-far uncured disease of “anti-Semitism” is reflected in this week’s Torah portion. Pharaoh tells his people: “Behold, the people of the children of Israel are too many and too mighty for us. Come let us deal wisely with them …lest they join themselves unto our enemies and fight against us…”(Shemot/ Exodus 1:9-10). Pharaoh’s description of the situation is not only wrong but reflects wild paranoia... The crazed statements of Pharaoh led to the enslavement of the Israelites.
The Tanakh / Bible Comes Alive

Jan 10, 2025

The Tanakh / Bible Comes Alive

This week’s parsha, Vayechi, concludes the book of Bereisheet / Genesis, and with it the story of the Patriarchs and Matriarchs. When we read the book of Shemot / Exodus next week, this family will have become a nation. Vayechi describes how Yaakov / Jacob dies after blessing his sons, and the haftarah connected with this parsha describes how King David dies after giving his last will and testament hundreds of years later.
Stop Comparing, Start Appreciating

Jan 3, 2025

Stop Comparing, Start Appreciating

The new secular year 2025 has begun, and the title of this Dvar Torah is my advice to you and my own resolution to myself. In this week’s Parashat Vayigash, we find two very different responses to life — one negative and one positive. When Yosef / Joseph brings his father to meet Pharaoh, Pharaoh asks Yaakov / Jacob a simple question: “How many years have you lived?” (Bereisheet / Genesis 47:8). His reply is is one of the saddest statements of any of our ancestors!
Shining a Light: Chanukah, Wicked, and Defying Gravity

Dec 27, 2024

Shining a Light: Chanukah, Wicked, and Defying Gravity

Chanukah has always been a season of light and resilience. Each flicker of the menorah’s candles reminds us of miracles, but also of the courage it takes to stand tall when the odds feel stacked against us. This year, as I reflect on the story of the Maccabees, I can’t help but think about Wicked. The recent film adaptation has reignited conversations about its themes of defiance and identity, and it’s easy to see why. Like the Maccabees, Elphaba, the misunderstood “Wicked Witch,” refuses to let others define her. Both stories remind us of the power of reclaiming narratives and standing up for what matters most.
Overcoming What Divides Us

Dec 20, 2024

Overcoming What Divides Us

Parashat VaYeishev introduces us to Joseph, a young dreamer whose journey begins with familial discord and ends with transformative leadership. His story of resilience, vision, and reconciliation speaks powerfully to challenges faced in the contemporary Jewish world. In VaYeishev, Joseph's dreams inspire him, but his youthful arrogance and his father’s overt favoritism create rifts between him and his brothers. Their jealousy leads to betrayal, setting Joseph on a path filled with hardship and uncertainty.
Wrestling with Family, Wrestling with Self

Dec 13, 2024

Wrestling with Family, Wrestling with Self

This recent Thanksgiving I was in Boston visiting my uncle (my father’s only brother), my aunt and their children and grandchildren. My sister and her son also flew in. The night before Thanksgiving dinner, my sister, my husband Avi and I all had dinner together (but without the other family members), and she shared a difficult issue she was wrestling with regarding her husband. Wrestling… it’s what we often do with family, right?