Jun 19, 2026
A number of years ago, after one of my first major Jewish speeches, a close friend walked up to me with a grin and said, "Good code switching." I laughed, thanked her, and immediately asked what she meant. She laughed even harder. At the time, I wasn't entirely sure I knew what the term meant. She explained that I had spent years moving between different worlds: Jewish, professional, civic, and LGBTQ+, and had become adept at adjusting my language, references, and presentation depending on the audience. Without realizing it, I had become fluent in multiple cultural dialects. In other words, I had learned how to code switch. For many LGBTQ+ people of my generation, it wasn't simply a social skill. It was often a survival skill.